Tuesday Tangent

This post is gonna be scattered and all over the place, but bear with me.

I finally got my blog redone and I love it. Kaylie did such a good job on it. She gave me exactly what I wanted.

I am finally working on a post with all the pictures from vacation, but I have a ton of pictures and quite a few stores from the beach, so it is coming along, but slowly.

I really want to join up with a swap with Candra from camoandlipstick.blogspot.com, but I'm just not sure I want to yet. I think it would help me get to know some other bloggers and make friends in the blogging world, but I'm not sure if I'm ready for that yet.

I'm kinda worried about my pup Opie. He has never peed in his cage that he sleeps in and the last 2 times I have put him in there, I have had to clean his cage out because he has peed in it. I'm not sure what is going on with him or what.

Cheater, Cheater

Ok. So the cheater? I woke up to a text from him this morning. I haven't heard from him since a few days before I left for Florida. To kinda give you a time frame, I left for Florida on March 8th and got back on the 15th. He texted to see if I was awake first, which I wasn't. The next message said "Look I'm only writing to say I'm sorry. I did you dirty and said some hasty things. You did nothing wrong and I'm sorry for how I treated you. You deserved better. Have a nice life. "

I didn't say anything back, but here is how I feel about it. Hell yes I deserve better than his sorry no good piece of trash ass. So do his wife and son. Yes, I said some things I shouldn't have, but I didn't lie to him nor did I cheat on him. I could have handled things better, I'm sure of this. But he wanted to lay the blame on me. Like I did something wrong. Texting his wife, was in my opinion, the best thing to do. We women have to stick together. I couldn't get mad at her, she was innocent. Or, she claims to be. To this day, I have no hard feelings toward her.  And I have forgiven him. Not because he apologized or deserves to be forgiven, but because my hatred toward him was doing nothing but hurting me and I am tired of hurting.

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Cheaters Suck Ass

Well, I am officially single again. I went to the boyfriend's (well, ex - boyfriend now) place on Sunday and kept seeing girls names pop up on his phone while I was there. I also found a tampon in his bathroom trash, so I started getting more suspicious than I already was. So he fell asleep on the couch and I went through his phone. Found out that he is married and telling her that he loved her. I got up and walked out. Got a little way down the road and texted him and told him to fuck off.

The next morning I texted his wife and told her what happened. He is denying everything we ever did or had to her. Good thing I have proof. She will text me and know he is lying and ask if I have a text showing he is lying. I sure do.

Anyway, he got so mad when I told him that I told her. He seemed to believe I was going to give him a second chance to cheat on me again. But when he found out that I had talked to his wife, he turned everything around on me. Blamed me for trying to ruin his life and kept telling me this was my fault. I told him he needed to look in the mirror. I'm just glad I found out now instead of further down the road. There is a lot more to this story and I will probably add that later. But this sure does ruin my reintroduction back into dating after 3 years of being single. Here's to another 3 years. Cheers